Monday, January 28, 2008

Nothing Special

Seeing as how this last week has been pretty slow, there isn't really anything with which I can have a lead off. So instead, it'll be just a collection of notes.

- There is no doubt that my English has fallen. It's not a huge problem at all, instead it's a little funny and frustrating at the same time. At least two or three times a week in Chisinau I make basic grammar mistakes like using the wrong tense, or else I just flat out forget a word altogether. Case in point: last Friday my friend and I were in a hotel room eating and were talking about how, at the store that we at with other volunteers they decided to run to McDonald's and one girl had some things in a basket that she had to but away. The problem was, I (and my friend) totally forgot the word 'basket.' I said that she had a full . . . full . . . full . . . and I held up my hand like I was holding something. My friend started to nod but it was clear that he had lost the word too. Finally it came to me, but not before I was on the verge of saying 'bucket'. My friend sighed in relief and said that he was about to say, 'holder.' It was brutal.

- This actually happened a month ago but I feel like it deserves re-telling now. Before I left for vacation my host-grandpa was asking me how we volunteers get money. I told him that my organization gives money to a bank and we go to ATM's and take it out. He leaned back slowly and did something he did with his head that I can't describe but which means that he didn't understand (part of the language we've developed between us that I wrote about last time). But at the same time my host-mom came up behind me and said, “Andy, grandpa doesn't know what an ATM is.” Thought it was classic.

But speaking of host-grandpa, I guess my entry all about him last week jinxed me, because when I got home on Sunday afternoon he was gone. Turns out he staged a little of a hunger strike until they would take him home. It worked.

- On Tuesday and Wednesday of this week we had two meetings after school, one with just teachers and one with the parents of the fifth grades students (who are the worst in the school). The total time of the two meetings: three hours. The total amount of words spoken by me: zero. We will actually go around the room while our director gets everyones opinion on a subject and., after asking the teacher to the left of me, will just jump to the teacher to the right. Not that I'm complaining. I'd rather not speak at such events. But they're an amazing waste of my time, at least me because of the fact that, in my position as a volunteer, virtually none of the decisions they make will ever have an effect on me.

-I would love, love, love to write more but last Thursday the new power cord I had just bought two months ago fried again. So alas, I'll be without a computer (and the ability to update this thing) for another two, three weeks. Sorry . . . .

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

My Favorite Person in the Village

Seeing as how he is, without a doubt, my favorite person in and around my village (as one of two Moldovan friends that I have), I decided that I would take a few minutes and a few lines of this space to describe my host-grandpa. I figured that, due to his eighty-years, he's earned some words from me.

He's my host-mom's dad and I first met him after I had been in my village only a few days last year when my host-sister and mom brought me along to his house in the next village over when they went to clean it out. I knew at once that I was dealing with a different type of person when he asked me if I had come to Moldova on a train or bus and was in a mild state of shock when I told him it was on a plane, ten hours from New York. That day marked the first of monthly-or so meetings in which we would go to his house to do various tasks that he physically can't do anymore. We picked grapes and made him wine – the 350 liters that he went through in six months – as well as apples that we picked and sold to supplement his monthly pension of thirty-eight dollars a month. His house is about a half-hour walk from ours and the last 200 yards or so are through one long continuous patch of mud, and one of the girls that I tutor sometimes lives only fifty or so yards away; as a result, when I would go to work with her my host-mom would often gave me food to bring along to grandpa.

Those types of treks to help him don't really happen anymore because, fortunately for me, he basically moved in with us here about six months ago after coming here off and on for three months before that. As I alluded to earlier, physically he can't do a whole lot. One year ago he could at least climb stairs, move around where need be, and while he did so slowly at least he was able. Now, however, his knees are basically shot. Even getting up and down in a chair is far from easy for him. And his hands aren't necessarily in the best of conditions too (I can only imagine what a geriatric doctor from America would say upon viewing his body and what needed to be done). He basically sits in one room of the house all day, listens to the radio, takes some naps with the cats laying on him. He's amazingly bored, to say the least. It's especially difficult for him to be here because of his physical condition – he sees the amount of work that my host-mom has to do every day and it drives him nuts that he simply can't do anything to help her, his only daughter. Once in a while she'll give him corn that he has to strip from the husk, a task he can accomplish during the day: I love it when I arrive home and see that he not only has finished the task but starts to brag about easy it was and how my host mom should have given him more to do, doing all with a cool confidence. And often, if given nothing to do, he'll tell me as soon as he sees me that his day was OK but that it would have been better had he had some work to do.

As I mentioned in the opening, my host grandpa here is really my only friend in the village. When I get bored I just drop in him and we talk a little – whenever I have problems with people or students and need someone to talk to I buy some beer and we sit and shoot the breeze for as long as it takes. He also really, really likes to drink (but my host mom consistently reminds me that while he has always liked to drink, he has never been a drunk who the likes of which stomp through the village, embarrassing himself and his family). He has told me that when he is home he would drink 1.5 liters of wine a day, but while he is here with us my host-mom simply just doesn't give any wine to him. As it stands, we end up drinking wine with dinner a few times a week or beer whenever I actually stick around my village for a Friday or Saturday night.

Apparently, my fondness for him is matched equally by his fondness for me – if I'm on vacation or somewhere he always asks when I'm coming back and when I do arrive home we shake hands and he immediately starts to interrogate me on what exactly I saw or experience during my time away. And he loves to see my pictures as I retell him everything. He's also fascinated by American life; one of these day's, if I ever figure out how, I'll record one of our discussions about how much things cost in America and how much money people receive, then translate it and post it on Youtube or something. His reactions are classic.

And speaking of classics, he told me last week about the time the Nazi Army was in my village during WWII. It wasn't that dynamic of a story – they told him in German to come over, he ran away – but I was amazed that he had waited so long to recount.

In closing, my favorite part of our relationship is this dialog that we've developed between us, this sort of language that comes with being surrounded my my host mom/sister for eighty percent of our time. It gets to the point that someone will say something odd or illogical or want him to do something that he doesn't want to and we just look at each-other and share a slow head-nod 'no', a little smile, or a shrug of the shoulders. Like I said, he's the closest thing I have to a friend in my village and when I leave here in a few seven-months time, he'll be the one I miss the most. No doubt about it.

Notes:
- I've been passing my free time recently watching the first two seasons of MacGyver, and while I won't waste your time by becoming a critic, I have to simply say that I've never seen something else that is simultaneously brilliant and brilliantly amazing at the same time. In a way it's shattered a little bit of something I had cherished since I was little.

- In Moldova they celebrate Christmas according to the Orthodox system, January 7th every year. This time, like last, we went over to my host grandma's where it was just my immediate host family, aunt, uncle, and cousin. Usually it's not a great time for me because everyone just sits around and speaks the Ukrainian dialect all the time. While I understand it well enough, I disagree with it's usage in principal around because I think it's a little disrespectful. My plan this year was to actually walk-out after a while and then, when asked where I was going, make a little speech about my thoughts on their using nothing but what they themselves refer to as “dirty Ukrainian.” But upon arrival I realized – something that I knew but had never hit me before – is that I'm fairly sure that my host grandma doesn't speak Russian at all; at least, if she does, I've never heard it from her. So I decided this year to just sit back, read the book that I had brought, and let them jabber away. Turned out to a really nice time too. I even answered a question right on Russian “Who Wants To Be a Millionaire” that everyone was impressed by.

- The last day before I left for vacation we had a man I didn't know, had never seen before, and will likely never see again, come by and asked for some wine when my host mom happened to be at work. The man who came was in really, really rough shape, a clear alcoholic who my host mom actually fed once before out of pity. He smelled really badly, had old clothes, glasses held together with wire, and rags over his hands instead gloves or mittens. He was nice actually and confused about who I was, where my host mom was, and why I was there. He was a little flummoxed when I told him that, in principal, I never give any wine to anyone. This actually has happened only once before, when my parents were here. That lady was nice too.

But my favorite part came when I went to see host grandpa, who saw the entire exchange but physically couldn't do anything. He was all fired up when I went to talk with him, loved my re-telling of the story, and had plenty of words to say about the man who had come – apparently, they know each-other.

- I also wrote before I left for vacation about the girl in my school who tragically died that week (apparently of leukemia, according to my partner teacher). Well, literally two minutes after I had posted my second-to-last entry my host mom came in and inquired if I wanted to go to the girls house for a memorial (or so I understood). While I didn't know the girl at all, I thought that the least I could do would be to go and pay my respects, especially in a community and school such as ours.

So I went outside and jumped in with the line of teachers all headed to the girls house (only a few minutes' walk away from mine). When we entered I saw in the veranda what I thought was the coffin itself and distinctly remember thinking that it was amazing that the girl was right there, underneath such a slim covering.

However, in entering the next room I was surprised to see that what I saw in the veranda was just a cover – the coffin with the girl inside of it was inside another room of the house where people had gathered around her. So I sat in that room with about fifteen other people for a good ten minutes, just us and the dead student who was wearing a beautiful dress; everyone drank a glass of wine and ate some crackers. It was one of the most somber moments experiences of my life.

- A month ago I bought a new phone off Ebay and had it shipped to my friend who was in America for Christmas. It's a Blackberry and it's amazing. I'm slowly trying to figure out how to get e-mail access on it (not so simple in Eastern Europe). But another volunteer got one a little while ago too and he's far more savvy than me. My goal: to send someone an e-mail from an outhouse.

- In closing, as I've written about before one of the main way's that I've tried to change things up in my life in this, my second year, is to try and take different modes of transportation back to my village (yes, not a large step, but what can you do?). Two Sundays ago I actually wanted to take the one bus that goes right home but, being the day before Christmas, it was standing room only two hours before departure, a yearly occurrence..

Wanting to minimize my discomfort, I took a trolleybus and a minibus to my regional center and in trying to get home ended up getting a ride in an ambulance driven by an off-duty driver to a village half-way to my own, knowing from the start that it would be fairly easy hitchhike the rest of the way home. After a few minutes of waiting a car rode by, seemingly ignoring me at first before I saw the red brake lights flash on and the horn blast.

So I ran over and, turns out, it was a girl from my school and her family. They not only picked me up but also drove me the mile or so past their house to my own because the weather was bad, then wouldn't take the money I offered. I thought that was not bad, and it certainly made my week for me.

Friday, January 04, 2008

Better Than We Could Have Thought

Yes, this posting means that I have officially gotten back from my trek across four countries, two continents, two seas, one peninsula, the longest river in the world, and one of the most important geographical points in the Old Testament.

Our journey started in Bucharest, a city about which, if you remember in my last entry, I had heard nothing but bad news and was looking forward to disliking. Needless to say, I wasn't disappointed, neither on my outgoing through the city nor on my return trip (more on that in a second). We took the overnight train from Chisinau, slept on the train, and rolled in at 6:15AM. It didn't take long to realize that my basic problem with the city is this: people there are the exact same as people here in Moldova. They can be just as impolite and unhelpful there as here, but people there look down on Moldova as being something like an unwanted step-child, in a very disparaging way. That annoyed me as much as anything else. There is one great silver-lining to the city though – all the American restaurants that we miss and are absent from Moldova just happen to be in the Romanian capital; as a result, we ate breakfast at McDonalds, lunch at Pizza Hut, watched a movie in English (which was terrible and quickly descended into my friends and I doing a Mystery Science Theater impression), then ate dinner at KFC. And you know what? We have no regrets.

We flew out in the evening and landed into Cairo at 3:30 in the morning, found a taxi to our hostel, and didn't go to sleep until 5:00, waking up with excitement a mere four hours later (there will be a point soon to these mentions sleep). At breakfast we were lucky to meet a man originally from Chicago who has been to Egypt ten times and was quick to dispense with advice and actually walked with us about an hour to the main market as well as showed us how to navigate the metro system and introduced us to a guy who arranges private tours (interestingly, in Cairo the first two cabins in subways are reserved just for women. They can and do travel in different cabins, but men aren't allowed into the first two). We then spent the rest of the day just walking around the city, trying to find the center of the ancient Coptic church but getting lost in the afternoon (we knew they were on the other side of a slum but reasoned that we didn't want to try passing through), then strolling through some of the main streets in the evening, an evening in which we decided that Cairo is our favorite city in the world (the justifications for that decision are forthcoming).

The following day we went did the tourist things. The man we met up with the day before who does private tours arranged for a car (for ten dollars each) to drive us to the Pyramids, wait around while we strolled around, and bring us back. As someone we met the first day told us, there is a very mercantile mindset still ingrained in the minds of many Egyptians and, if your are willing to pay for it, people will be willing to do just about anything for you. This was our first example.

The Pyramids were really interesting, although in all honesty they weren't as big as we thought. Don't get me wrong – they're big. Maybe our expectations were just too much, but we were hoping for the most massive objects any of us had ever seen. They weren't. But that fact still didn't diminish our overall awe of just being near and around such world-famous objects that have stood for so long. The Sphinx was especially nice, although it would be nicer if the British hadn't cut off the beard and taken it to London. It was really nice there because it's basically an open area – you pay the ten dollars to get through the front gate but then you're free to roll around the complex how you feel, for as long as you feel. We felt like two hours . .. .

Then in the afternoon we went to the Egyptian National Museum, featuring dozens of mummies and other artifacts all coming from the long and amazing Egyptian history. There are two highlights in the place (although, I have to admit, in almost any other museum in the world the things that are casually disregarded in Cairo would be the main part). The most well-known object would the burial mask of King Tut, which is stunning, and the second most well-known object is the throne and footrest of King Tut. Ironically, under the footrest was placed pictures of his enemies so he could symbolically place his feet upon then whenever he wanted – as my friend and I joked, do Cheney and Rumsfield have similar arraignments?

That evening, rather than pay the money for a room – although a night in Cairo cost only five dollars – we decided to take an overnight bus to a town on the south end of the Sinai peninsula called Sharm el-Sheik, arriving at 6:15AM and transferring to our final destination, the town of Dahab on the Red Sea. Arriving there was one of the happiest moments of the nine days – Dahab is this warm, quiet, small town on the coast in which people come to just to relax on the beach and drink tea. We got to our hostel and during breakfast we had the remarkable revelation: the land we were seeing across the water was in Saudi Arabia. We were looking at Saudi Arabia! Upon comprehending this the three of us just sat there in silence.

Our original plan was to spend the night in Dahab and take the ferry to Jordan the next day but we also wanted to climb to the top of Mount Sinai to watch sunrise. In talking with the man at the front desk of the hostel we realized that our most time efficient option would be to climb Sinai at night, then rather than return all the way to Dahab the next day they could arrange for the car bringing us back from the mountain to bring us to another car that would take us the the port-town where we could catch the ferry to Jordan and then press on to our final destination, the ancient city carved out of stone called Petra. Yes, this plan was a little nuts – after sleeping five hours on a bus which, 1) Isn't really 'sleep' and, 2) Would come of the heels of sleeping a combined twenty hours in the previous four nights, and 3) We planned to climb a mountain and cross the Red Sea the next day. If we didn't suffer serious personal harm from exhaustion, we would be set to fully enjoy our time in Petra.

So we spent Christmas day walking on the beaches in our city, talking with a great Australian couple that we met during breakfast and taking a two hour nap. And on Christmas day at 11:00 at night, we got a ride to the base of Mount Sinai with two Japanese tourists and a family from Canada. We met our tour guide, drank tea to warm us (the temperature was about seventy-five to eighty during the day but down to about thirty-five at night), and finally took off for the summit at 2:00 in the morning. We were lucky in that we had an almost full moon which made the three and a half hours to the top far more bearable. That being said, the route was far from easy. It's about four miles, all of which is taken in the middle of the dark night and it's a path that winds up, around, and through the mountains. The final half-hour stretch is 750 stairs which make the perfectly difficult end of the path.

However, the reward that we received at the top made the whole trek worthwhile. At the top there is a Catholic church and an Islamic mosque as well as everyone who had succeeded waiting for the sun to come up from the east, across the peninsula, the Red Sea, and the mountains of Saudi Arabia. There are no words to accurately describe all that we felt at the time so I'll just recommend that you look at the picture that follows this entry to get an idea of what we saw.

And no matter how tired we all were, once the sun came up we became filled with energy and were especially happy when the sun illuminated the amazing scenery around us. Turns out, the range gets it's name because Sinai means 'teeth' (or maybe 'tooth') in Arabic, and the path back to the start showed all of us why. Also at the start – which we reached at 8:30 in the morning – is the Monastery of St. Katherine's, built on the spot where Moses saw the Burning Bush and which is still maintained by a combination of Greek, Russian, and Romanian Orthodox priests and which was built in the 11th century. Present there is also what some people call the original Burning Bush and what others call a descendant of the original. Either way, it was quite the spectacle.

The following day (or the same day, depending on how one views it) we got one ride to a waiting car and another to the port-town of Newueba, where we caught the ferry across. The price was a little steep for us – when we got to the ticket office it was written '70' and we thought it was written in Egyptian pounds, which would equal about twelve dollars – a reasonable sum. But we were wrong – it was written in dollars. The price alone, however, soon turned out to be highly worth it simply for the experience that we got out of it. We were, for a while totally lost along with the other half-dozen or so tourists trying to cross as well. Everything was written in Arabic without a clue about what needed to be done. However, in the midst of our confusion a van pulled up with a few Italian tourists and their Arabic-speaking guide and we were quick to join in with them – thankfully, their guide was more than happy to help us. One of the most culturally shocking moment that I've had in all of my travels was entering this shipyard that contained the customs agents. It was full – packed – with lines of men fifty yards long, all yelling at everyone else and none too happy that we, as Westerners, were allowed to go right to the front of the line.
It was one of the most surreal few minutes, one of the few times in my life that I was totally, 100 percent outside of my comfort zone, not because I felt any personal danger but because it was the type of situation in which I had just never found myself before that.

The ferry across was fine, and despite the fact that we were exhausted, we immediately found transport to Petra, our final destination, and took the two our ride up. After finding a hostel, getting dinner in a restaurant (a place we liked so much we are five consecutive meals there), we promptly passed out at 9:30 at night.

We were later glad that we hustled because it gave us plenty of time to spend the next two days in Petra, one of the most remarkable places on the planet – as evidence of this, it was just recently named as one of the 7 Wonders of the World, and with good reason. For those of you who don't know what Petra is (I had no clue before going there), it's an entire ancient city carved out of the side of cliffs around AD 20. At one point there was over 30,000 inhabitants there. If you've ever seen Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, the end of the movie where he goes to the Canyon of the Crescent Moon is actually Petra. I wish I could even start to describe what is there but because I can't, I won't even try. Instead, just look at the pictures that follow this to get a general idea of what's there. We were in the city for two days and on the second day we met up with our friends for PC Moldova who were traveling through Jordan at the time – we had coordinated our stays at the same hostel together and believe me when I say that our shared time with friends make the time that much better.

As for our return journey, I had a flight of Cairo at 4:30 on Sunday morning and we came up with the plan of crossing from Petra to the Egyptian capital on the same day, departing from our starting point at 7:00 in the morning with idea of crossing about 400 miles, two countries, two continents, one peninsula and the Red Sea and doing so by two cars, a ferry, and a bus. Thankfully, the plan came to fruition without a hitch, although I admit I was a little nervous when the bus broke down in the middle of the Sinai. Thankfully, we started up again after a mere fifteen minutes. The craziness of everything hit us fully when we got to Cairo and while I was waiting for a cab to the airport one of my friends remarked at how risky it was for us to try to do what we did. Thankfully, it went off about as well as we could have imagined.

My trip wasn't complete, however (my friends stayed there two days longer than I). In the airport in Bucharest on the way back I was told that my flight to Chisinau for that day was canceled and that I would have to wait twenty-fours there, put up in a hotel room paid for by the airline. At first I was a little bothered but then it hit me that I would be able to have my own time, in my own nice hotel room, to sit around and relax all day, recuperating some energy. So that's exactly what I did – I drank a little beer, took a three-hour nap, watched HBO in English. All in all, no complaints. And of course I was able to get back to Moldova in time for the New Year's day celebration, taking a 45 minutes on a prop-plane that caused me to do a double take when I first glanced at and on which there was only fifteen people, five of us being Americans.

And that night in here in Moldova turned out to be a great ending to the best trip I've ever had, one that turned out to be better than any of us ever could have imagined before we left. The best way to say is that it wasn't really a trip, it was an adventure.

Notes:
- As I alluded to earlier, Cairo officially tops my list of my favorite cities in the world. There is no real way to explain it – basically, take all the preconceived notions of a modern city with ancient roots (like Rome) and make those roots not European but Islamic. It has a feel that was totally like any other. We also liked the fact that it wasn't swarming with tourists; while there are certainly plenty around the Pyramids and museums, in just walking through the streets at night there were hardly any to be found, a fact which only added to the great feel we got from the place. Our best description would be to say that it's like a stripped-down version of Istanbul, but of course that could only be understood by a person who has been to Istanbul.

- For a final tally of our sleep the day we crossed to Petra, in the 62 hours between 7:00 AM on Monday morning and 9:00 Wednesday evening, we slept a grand total of eight hours, which includes one night on a bus and climbing a mountain in that time span. Our motor skills were diminishing and even our language was falling – we would say things at dinner like, “can you give me a cut (instead of cup).” It was brutal.

- Before I went we were all prepared to face a barrage of harassment from merchants and the like on the streets of Cairo, but we were pleasantly surprised. While people were quick to come up to us and offer to sell us things, as soon as we said no it was the end of the conversation (as opposed to a city like Istanbul, where they keep coming and coming). And the people, especially in Cairo, were more than happy to aide us in any way they could. At one point we were trying to find the bus station and were not successful in trying to get there. Being the only non-Egyptian people around, it was clear we were lost. But just on the street we had some young people come up to us and ask us if there was anything they could help us with. Needless to say, they and others were more than willing to aide us. Even on the ferry on the way back, on which we were three of maybe ten non-Muslims on board, people helped us in tasks like saving our seats when we went for passport registration and talking us up a little.

My favorite antidote of how people cared for us there comes from the bus back to Cairo on the return leg of our journey. Before departing from the town some men on front of us on the bus got into a big argument about seats. They were yelling at each other loudly (but doing so in a respectful way, if that makes any sense), but after about a minute one man turned around to my friend and said something to him in Arabic while pointing at the seat numbers. While we clearly didn't understand him, the message was clear: 'don't worry, we're just talking about our places.”

We also didn't face as much as a hint of anti-Americanism there. Not even a hint. In fact it was the opposite – we had people ask us on the streets if we really from America, then got a few geographical questions to see if we were telling the truth. But I have to say that traveling in Islamic countries created some interesting situations for the girl in our group. There were a lot of times in which she was either the only female in a place or one of only a handful, and she said that if she had been alone she wouldn't have been conformable but being with us, she was fine.

- Finally, I'll end with a few words on the Russians we met who turned out to be some of the coolest people on earth. We first bumped to them at the bus station in Cairo that was taking us to the south of Sinai – one of them approached us and, in English that was a little weak, asked where were going. We answered and asked them where they were from, and when their answer confirmed our thoughts my friend – another Russian speaker – and I told them how we all live in Moldova and speak Russian and we ended up chatting with them for an hour (in a great remark about my language and my accent, one of them said he knew my friend was American but was surprised to learn that I'm not from Chisinau). We then bumped into them in Dahab. And on the top of Mt. Sinai. And in the port-town on the way to Jordan. And again on the boat. And finally, in Petra.

These guys were hard-core in their travels. They sat in the back of a flat-bed truck going fifty miles an hour for two hours in 40 degree weather to get to the base of Mt. Sinai, then carried their fifty pound frame packs to the summit because there was no place to put them. Getting there early, they actually pitched a tent for a while. And my favorite part is that rather than pay the thirty-five dollar entrance fee to Petra, they opted to walk fifteen miles around the complex, sleep in the mountains, and stroll in through the back door the next day. It was out of sheer luck that we bumped into them when we did, and it's only fitting for us that the final time we saw them they were walking away from a Jordanian security guard who asked to see tickets they hadn't bought – they feigned that they didn't understand and promptly split.

A fitting image, we all though, that summed up all of our time spent together . . .

Pictures, I






Above is the first set of pictures that I wanted to show:
1) The Sinai mountains as seen on our trek down.
2) The monastery nestled amidst everything, the one that contains the Burning Bush
3) Me in the gully that is actually the entrance to Petra. Believe it or now, it's actually a totally natural area, carved by tectonic action and not water
4) Me in Petra again.
5) An example of some of the buildings carved out of rock. It was tough to capture much - this is as good as I could manage.

Pictures, II






Here is the second collection of pictures from my journey:
1) At the top is a me (in the bottom-left corner) in front of the Pyramids.
2)My with the Sphynx.
3) This is me in the town of Dahab with the mountians of Saudi Arabia in the background.
4) An image from the town itself.
5) My favorite image from the eight days, one that is now my desktop background: sunrise on Mt. Sinai.